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So I have known this boy for a long time now. We dated once but he has a girlfriend now. And I think I might be in love with him. What should I do? Confused lover girl. Dear Confused lover girl, The thing that stands out the most for me, is the fact that he has a girlfriend. When the person you have feelings for has a boyfriend/girlfriend, that's a major block in your path but also a major sign to stop in your tracks. The last thing you ever want to do is try to come between him and his girlfriend, because that will just cause drama between you, his girlfriend, and most likely even your friendship with him. Now, for what you can do, you can always talk it out with him, but sometimes that leaves you with an outcome you weren't expecting. The thing that also sticks out to me though, is when you say you might be in love with him. You can't really be in love with him, unless you spend a lot of time together, and connect in ways you don't normally connect with other pe...